[A copy of the email I sent to the barefooters.org community a couple
of days prior.
Self-explanatory]
Subject: go-round # 2 with a particular hotel I was working another occurrence of a convention last weekend, the prior instance of which was about a year ago. We, i.e. the full and/or part-time barefooters who show up and help make the con happen, ran into some trouble despite us thinking we'd fixed the problem last year. They evidently got a bunch of new people, and of course "be tolerant of guests' attire" never gets into their training. One of our principal tech folks got tossed from the bar, by some big burly rude bartender who kept claiming it was a violation of "health code" and wouldn't listen to any contrary facts. The person in question knows me quite well and my standpoint on this, agrees that it's largely unfounded discrimination, and went straight to the hotel desk and asked for the general manager. He also alerted our senior convention staff that this crap was happening *again*, and that sharp re-education was needed NOW. When I heard this was going on I happened to be near where my car was parked and popped out to grab another one of my info-sheets, but it turned out it wasn't needed because 1> the hotel already had it on file from last year, and 2> the hotel-liaison person also had another copy in her purse from last year! The situation was quickly rectified and nobody ran into any more trouble in the bar/restaurant area. I don't know the fate of said rude bartender, but hopefully he got suitably reprimanded. Later, I was in a "feedback" session near the end of the festivities, where people go to air what they liked or didn't like about the event, and another attendee piped up and said "I can't believe the number of barefoot people around this con, you know that's against health code, right?" ... to which I immediately jumped in with "no it's not", there was a brief back-and-forth which was clearly not going to get resolved so we moved on. But the spare info-sheet I had went into his hands as the session wrapped up, with "here's the truth, maybe it can help you work on that unfounded phobia" or something to that effect. He didn't try to give the sheet back to me, so maybe there's some hope that he'll understand. After strike and loadout a bunch of us gathered for a very nice dinner in said hotel restaurant, with three or four barefooters present, and we were cordially treated. In the interim another event had moved into the function space, a big Indian gala of some sort, and as I went by where they were setting up I told some of them about our episode with the hotel. The big question would be, if any of *their* people chose to go barefoot around the place, would they get yelled at? How selective is the hotel's "permission" in this regard, I wonder? It shouldn't be selective at all, and nobody should ever get harassed about their footwear choices ever. But I chose to warn the incoming group and plant the seed of that question in their minds. South Asian culture, as we've mentioned in the past, tends to be far more barefoot tolerant than whitebread Americans, and I'm happy to patronize establishments run by folks of such heratige because it's less likely that any trouble will arise. | |
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